A Life Theme

Merriam-Webster's Dictionary defines "regret" as "feeling deeply sad or sorry about something." The origin of the word may go back to the Old Norse language and carries the meaning "to weep over." In the last few days I have had a discussion with some people for whom I care very much about "regrets" and living life without them. I understand the desire to live life without regret. I think it makes very good sense to not live in the past. I don't think there is anyone who would claim to have never made a mistake. We all have. However, if living without regret means not living in the past and not dwelling upon mistakes, then I agree with that longing. Fixating upon what might have been is a waste of time and energy.

Having stated that case, though, I can't help but wonder if all of us don't have some things that we wish were a bit different in our lives. I don't know what we call these things, especially if "regret" is a bad word. I just know from my own life that there are things that I wish were a bit different. I could have been more kind to that person. I could have been a bit more sensitive. I could have shown patience. Maybe it is that I wish people for whom I care did not have to struggle or hurt. Are these regrets? I have no idea.

I do know this; there is one area in my life in which I wish I had done more. I wish I had taken more time; had more boldness; or been wiser in telling just one more person about Jesus Christ. I am still at Union Middle School (and, apparently, still learning). As a part of my job, I have been teaching the Holocaust. I came across this snippet from the movie Schindler's List. I invite you to watch it.

http://http://restlesspilgrim.blogspot.com/2010/10/regret-i-didnt-do-enough.html

I find that snippet powerful and moving. I have decided that the phrase, "One More Person" ought to be the theme of my life right now. Paul writes in Colossians 4:5, "Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity." I am pleased that I have had the opportunity to do this. I regret that I have missed some opportunities. I do not dwell, though, upon the mistakes. Instead, they challenge, humble and inspire me to make the most of every chance I get. "One more person;" it has a nice ring to it. Think about it.

Once again, thanks for reading...